So sorry re: your mom Pappy. If you're lucky, their age, & ours, doesn't matter. Our relationship is the thing, your mom is your mom and how can we ever be ready to let them go?
No idea as to your plans but Charlottesville is only a couple hours away. My home along with transportation and a driver is yours for the asking if needed, my friend.
GOD's blessings to you and your loved ones.