As a dad of two special needs kids we learned up front that therapy was best up front till my wife had it down pat.
Then when we went to doing the heavy lifting with a confident knowledge at home,
we didn't second guess and run to the doctor every 4th day or when something that was new to us happened, just a thought.
Knowing keeps your anxiety down & keeps whom you are helping from picking up on it.
We here will keep you & this decision in our Prayers.