Douglas - on PayPal if you go to personal and send as a gift there are no fees. Took me awhile to figure that out! If fact member Mr. Zimmerman turned me on to that.
It is also worth stating that you should use this option sparingly. Know the person very well because, if you use the gift option, and the deal goes sour, you do not have the same options open to you. Basically, you can kiss your money goodbye if the recipient refuses to return it. Not saying that would happen with anyone on this board at all, but it is worth knowing.